I understand what you're going through; I logged on the first time to post a reply on the forum (like what I'm doing now) and I had to keep logging onto the website numerous times....
I haven't been on this site for quite some time so to see the site improvements was a delight. My only issue to date is that the forum isn't user-friendly in terms of any typo's. There should be delete & edit options on message posts. VERB